The passage of the Gay Marriage Ban in California and Arizona reflects, in my opinion, how oppressed groups should not expect to be liberated by their oppressors. Asking the citizenry to vote for ending oppression based on sexual orientation in a society that valorizes the patriarchal family and therefore the male headed nuclear family is a non-starter. This is also a society where ‘common sense’ still conflates homosexuality with pedophilia and conceives of marriage as a ‘God’ given and ruled relationship, rather than a social relation of ownership and domination that tied women to men and made them subordinate to and dependent upon the husband. The annals of history show that marriage is not the bastion of love and equality, but a power relationship created through violence and dispossession. It has only been in the last forty years that spousal rape is even a legal category, since before that women had no right to say no to sex, since they were the property and therefore the play thing of their owner, oh, sorry, I mean husband.
Putting these questions to vote reproduces the tyranny of the majority. It makes about as much sense as putting to vote whether to let African-Americans have the right to vote during slavery. Asking a population that views gay people as an inferior subhuman ‘other’ whether they should be given rights may be formally democratic, but it is not the path to equality, at the current historical juncture. I know that saying democracy and equality are not one in the same may come as a shock to some of you but re-read your history books: democracy shaped by capitalism, racism, sexism/patriarchy and classism, amongst others, will never realize an egalitarian society. You do not ask the master to give the slave rights, the slave must demand rights from the master, which happens through struggle.
The denial of rights to Gay’s highlights the contradictions within a democratic society, where we are not all given the same rights from birth, in opposition to what we are told in school. Moreover, it shows how the democratic process can be employed to deny rights through the passage of law: we are a nation of laws after all! And if you haven’t been watching the news lately, especially Obama, laws are apparently the only things standing between us and barbarism or anarchy, take your pick. Laws, Laws, Laws. What people forget is that the law is not some neutral entity devoid of power. Law is reflective of the dominant power groups and therefore of class, race, and gender hierarchies, amongst others: and will be employed to provide and deny rights based on the current formation of power.
With this passage into law we see how the concrete inequality of everyday life, the ‘private’ sphere, is transformed into the ‘public’ sphere and consequently becomes state law. The state is now directly reflective of the oppression occurring on the level of everyday life. What happens in the daily life of gays, their status as second-class citizens, is now legitimated as just because the oppressor, through the ‘democratic’ process of voting, reaffirmed their constitutional right to maintain their position of power vis-à-vis the oppressed.
The right of gay people to marry whomever they want to will not come by way of the ballot anytime soon, at the state or federal level. If must be wrestled in the streets, which means building a broad based coalition that fights for this, and not just at the level of electoral politics. It is battle for the hearts and minds of Americans. And as one approaches the battle we must realize that many hearts and minds are too couched in anger, violence, bitterness, and close-mindedness to see that the oppression of others means that they themselves are oppressed: that until all bonds of oppression are ended no one can be equal.
The goal is not to replace the master but to end the position of master.
Putting these questions to vote reproduces the tyranny of the majority. It makes about as much sense as putting to vote whether to let African-Americans have the right to vote during slavery. Asking a population that views gay people as an inferior subhuman ‘other’ whether they should be given rights may be formally democratic, but it is not the path to equality, at the current historical juncture. I know that saying democracy and equality are not one in the same may come as a shock to some of you but re-read your history books: democracy shaped by capitalism, racism, sexism/patriarchy and classism, amongst others, will never realize an egalitarian society. You do not ask the master to give the slave rights, the slave must demand rights from the master, which happens through struggle.
The denial of rights to Gay’s highlights the contradictions within a democratic society, where we are not all given the same rights from birth, in opposition to what we are told in school. Moreover, it shows how the democratic process can be employed to deny rights through the passage of law: we are a nation of laws after all! And if you haven’t been watching the news lately, especially Obama, laws are apparently the only things standing between us and barbarism or anarchy, take your pick. Laws, Laws, Laws. What people forget is that the law is not some neutral entity devoid of power. Law is reflective of the dominant power groups and therefore of class, race, and gender hierarchies, amongst others: and will be employed to provide and deny rights based on the current formation of power.
With this passage into law we see how the concrete inequality of everyday life, the ‘private’ sphere, is transformed into the ‘public’ sphere and consequently becomes state law. The state is now directly reflective of the oppression occurring on the level of everyday life. What happens in the daily life of gays, their status as second-class citizens, is now legitimated as just because the oppressor, through the ‘democratic’ process of voting, reaffirmed their constitutional right to maintain their position of power vis-à-vis the oppressed.
The right of gay people to marry whomever they want to will not come by way of the ballot anytime soon, at the state or federal level. If must be wrestled in the streets, which means building a broad based coalition that fights for this, and not just at the level of electoral politics. It is battle for the hearts and minds of Americans. And as one approaches the battle we must realize that many hearts and minds are too couched in anger, violence, bitterness, and close-mindedness to see that the oppression of others means that they themselves are oppressed: that until all bonds of oppression are ended no one can be equal.
The goal is not to replace the master but to end the position of master.